Tracking Mud

by Rev. Eric Folkerth

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I snapped this picture of a splotch of mud on the carpet at Church, just after everybody left worship Sunday. It’s part of a trail of mud down the center aisle that extends from our 1215 Door all the way up to the chancel area.

We had a lot of visitors with us on Confirmation Sunday; our first officially planned Sunday back inside our sanctuary since March of 2020. So I don’t know who tracked the mud inside.

Might have been a kid.
Might have been an adult.
Heck, *I* might have tracked it in, for all I know…

It doesn’t matter for the point I’m making here.

The point is that two immediate thoughts raced through my brain when I saw it. They happened within milliseconds of each other. Far quicker than you can read them on this page.

I thought:“Oh, dang. Somebody tracked mud in the sanctuary.”
And then: “Thank God! Somebody tracked mud into the sanctuary!!”

Many of you know local churches well, and have either been a part of Kessler Park or other congregations for many years. You know that in far too many churches there might even be a serious “freak out” that happens over a splotch of mud on the carpet.

Pre-pandemic, you know that in far too many churches the following things might actually happen:

Disturbed parishioners would call their pastor talking about the desecration of the holy space and how they found it “impossible” to worship and pray.

A committee would be formed.
Meetings would be held.

Ideas would be tossed out, on how to prevent the future scourge of muddy feet.
The church would then buy the newest, best door mats.
(After an extensive search of reviews on Amazon and Yelp…)

The Church Trustees would buy a plastic runner for the carpet.
Or, disposable shoe coverings for everybody’s feet.
(Kept in the narthex, next to the umbrella stand…)

The ushers would be instructed to “check feet” as folks came in the door; and would be provided with a “sample script” of what to say, should they discover a future offender.

Some ushers would express discomfort in being asked to do this.

Given this, printed signs would be tastefully placed on all exterior doors, and the verbiage on them would also become a permanent paragraph in the bulletin announcement section.

This would come after several committee meetings to carefully craft said verbiage.
But, after much discussion and many weeks, the gist of the agreed-upon wording would be: “Please check your feet.”

The pastor and/or the head of the Trustees would make an announcement before the start of next week’s service, about how we all need to be more careful, about how the sanctuary is a holy space, and how everyone needed to be on their best behavior and “watch yourself.”

In sum….the inordinate amount of energy, concern, and precious time expended to combat the scourge of a splotch of mud…would be STAGGERING.

(Again, please understand. I am not talking about KPUMC, specifically. I’m asking you to pretend with me about what happens in far too many places…)

Friends, I hope you know where I’m going.

The pandemic year has reset everything. It’s peeled back layer upon layer of “the way we’ve always done things” and left those layers rotting in the gutter to be washed away by these spring rains.

Churches —any church anywhere— can no longer afford to waste their time on such nonsense.

Yes, I called it nonsense. Because in the event that your thoughts are still back on the mud itself —worried about what to do about it— I want you to focus on just how dire things really are. 

Churches were already struggling pre-pandemic.
For decades, Churches have wrestled with their sense of calling or purpose, or how to attract and keep young folks, or how to become more diverse; all while the percentage of church-going Americans plummets, year-on-year.

Time and time again, Churches everywhere have an insidious way of “majoring in the minor;” wasting away what Mary Oliver calls our “one wild and precious life” solving problems that aren’t the problems.

Or, even worse, solving “problems” that are actually signs that you’re doing your job.
I mean, mud in the sanctuary means PEOPLE in the sanctuary. It’s an outward and visible sign of an outward and visible grace.

— It’s a sign that children, youth, and their families might be coming in the door.

— It’s a sign that some *new person* (who doesn’t know your rules and customs) might’ve come in the door.

— It’s a sign that the world is complicated and real, gritty and challenging —filled with ethical and social justice issues all of humankind wrestles with every day— and that people are desperate for community, connection, and support, and somebody to wrestle-through these same issues.

— It's a sign that, after fourteen of the longest months of our lives, somebody is IN the sanctuary, tracking in mud.

— It’s a sign that the world is far, far less tidy than the pretend world we too often play at inside a sanctuary’s walls.

That mud…is a sign of hope.

So, please don’t worry about the mud. Sometime this week, after it’s dried, I feel more than confident somebody will break out the vacuum and it will all be cleaned away.

But long after it’s gone, keep looking at this picture. 
Keep reminding yourself of how it’s a sign of HOPE.

After a year of pandemic, there’s really only *one* response we can make to mud on the church carpet…

“Thank God! Somebody tracked mud into the sanctuary!!”

In-Person Gatherings

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by Rev. Eric Folkerth

At their Monday meeting, Kessler Park’s Trustees voted to move toward a reopening of our building, with the caveat of urging everyone who attends events at KPUMC to follow CDC guidance. 

Some of you are no doubt cheered by this news.

Perhaps some of you are also wary.

As with the beginning of this pandemic more than a year ago, these months of opening back up have also been filled with confusing advice and political intrigue. So, let’s be sure we understand the science behind this decision by our Trustees because we now have several months of data not just from clinical trials, but also from the real-world experience of all of us who are vaccinated.

First, as you hopefully have heard, many of those vaccinated are shown to be 95 percent safe from contracting COVID. Additionally, those vaccinated are shown to be less likely to transmit the disease to others. And, finally, those vaccinated —should they transmit any disease— appear to spread a much less lethal version of the virus.

All this is incredibly good news, based on the real-world experience of the millions of us who are already vaccinated.

There’s one other data-point that we should all be aware of that is specific to our neighborhood. Our church’s zip code (75208) has exceeded the 80% vaccination rate!

EIGHTY percent!
Way to go, Kessler Park neighbors! 
(It should not go unnoticed that having Methodist Hospital in our zip code no doubt greatly helped us achieve this milestone…)

Taken together, these science-based facts have led our Trustees to approve the opening of our building. Our worship will be indoors and many regular meetings may well resume in-person. 

Please note: We are making plans such that every event sponsored by our church (worship and meetings) will continue to be live-streamed for the foreseeable future. It could be that some committees and small groups choose to remain totally virtual for now. Our weekly support groups (AA, for example) will each decide on their own when they will return to “in person.”

The Trustees discussed, for example, some combination of “totally virtual” and “in person” meetings. It might be some of our groups only meet in person every-other-month, for example. Some may not meet in person for a while yet. We’re going to leave it to each group to make their own decisions.

Those who are fully vaccinated are not required to wear masks, but most obviously still may if they wish. Those who are not vaccinated are asked to mask, or stay home. But, more than this, anyone not yet vaccinated, we are strongly urging you to do so!

For now, the Trustees are still asking us all to maintain family-member group distance in worship. They have arranged the seat cushions in the sanctuary in a way that should help us to do this easily, by simply sitting on the cushioned parts of the pews and avoiding sitting on the bare wood.

Friends, it’s a lot to take in. 

As I said at the start, no doubt some of you are cheered by this, and some are wary. I’ve said for months now that our primary goal would be to “do no harm,” and to also follow the science. That’s what we’ve been doing for all these months; or, what we’ve tried to do. And I think that’s what we’re doing now.

Another reality check. 

We’re about to hit the summer season. And, realistically, our attendance will be down. (I know, I’m not supposed to admit that to you…) So, this should also help us as we ease back to “in person.”

One thing I will absolutely continue to insist upon: Let’s please be kind to everyone, regardless of their own personal decisions.

No one should be shamed for wearing a mask, or not wearing one.
No one should be shamed for staying home, or for wanting to meet in person.

Let’s continue to show kindness and grace to everyone…the same kindness and grace you've all manifested to each other for all these many months.

Given this week’s rain, it’s very likely that we’ll worship indoors (despite having previously announced we’d be outdoors…) and it’s likely that our “picnic” *may* be in the Fellowship Hall. Either way, know that you are welcome and invited to both events. (It’s BYO-Food for the picnic…)

Finally, I’ll share how great it was to see our High School Seniors and their families on Senior Sunday. We had several families that hadn’t been with us since the pandemic began.

And at least one person said to me, “I hadn’t realized how much I missed this until I walked back in the door.”

I’m going to bet that will be the case for many more of you in the coming weeks.

We know we won’t see all of your faces all at once.
But just know that it will be such a joy when we do.
We’ve missed you all.

Grace and Peace,

Eric Folkerth

We're Listening

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by Rev. Eric Folkerth

“Listen to the neighborhood.”

You may recall that I wrote this to you last week in my column. And I repeated the message in Sunday’s sermon.

The sermon was about “interconnectedness,” and I was reminding us all that we are connected to our neighborhood as a Church. Our future must be tied to our neighborhood’s future, and as we vision our future together over this next year. It was Rev. Mitchell Boone who recently reminded our Church Council to “listen to the neighborhood.”

So, I preached that Sunday, and here’s what happened…

A neighbor was watching our livestream, and reached out to let us know how excited he is about our visioning process. And he volunteered to help!

This does not surprise me.

Before we listen to our longterm members, or even our newer members, we must listen to our neighborhood. Then, *our* visioning must be informed by their feedback. This is how we insure that Kessler Park UMC remains vitally interconnected to its mission field.

So, some questions for you…

How should we get neighborhood feedback?
Online surveys?
Mailers?
Face-to-face focus groups?

What groups should we reach out to?
Neighborhood associations?
Businesses?
Non-profits?
Social Media groups?

My hunch is…all of the above and more.

But I’d love to get your thoughts.
If you have ideas on who we need to listen to, whose voices need to be at the table, and heard, let me know. I’m posting this same column on our Facebook page today, and I invite you to leave comments there.

As you think about this, consider another thing Mitchell told us…

He said that early on White Rock UMC designated people from the Church to skip worship (gasp!) on a few Sundays and just drive around their neighborhood to learn what folks do during that time.

Not a bad idea.
If you’d like to be a volunteer with this (Yes, this would be a free pass to skip Church!), let me know.

Above all, let’s get ready to attune our ears to LISTEN.