Something's Happening Here

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You have a lot of churches to choose from.

Let’s be honest — some of them have much better preachers than me. Some of them have better music programs; if you like rock music, there are churches that have services designed specifically for you. Some churches have much bigger choirs, orchestras, bands, and multiple children’s choirs.

There may not be many church buildings more beautiful than ours, but there are buildings that are bigger, with more comfortable seating, with big screens and fancy visuals, with bigger stained glass compositions.

Don’t get me started with the children’s and youth programs: some churches have built entire buildings to house those booming ministries. Some churches have rock climbing walls, castle playhouses, and gymnasiums for their kids; some even have entire departments staffed by multiple pastors.

Some churches have a lot more money than ours; they have famous people, athletes, big-name CEOs, and celebrities making regular donations. Some churches are so financially successful that their pastors have their own private jets.

There are churches that are high-church, with lots of liturgy, fancy robes, and incense; there are churches that are low-church, with simple prayers, hand-clapping, and shouted amens. Some churches are full of white people, while others are mostly brown or black, and some are even a diverse mix of colors.

And, yes, I suppose that some churches have more active laypeople, more volunteers, more competent members who have more time to give to the church.

You could attend any one of these many churches in the Dallas area. Or you could drive over to Fort Worth — it’s not that bad of a drive on Sunday morning.

You have a choice when it comes to which church you attend. I’m very aware of that fact. I’m always aware that other churches do some things much better than us, and I’m hyper-aware of the things that we don’t do very well at all, including myself.

But I’m beginning to understand that there is something very profound happening at Kessler Park UMC that is unique to this location, to this group of people, to this particular time in history.

We are becoming a community; we are slowly and gradually becoming a group of people who have been called together by the living God. Every single one of us belongs. There are others who haven’t arrived yet, but they’re on their way. In the meantime, we are growing together, and our commitment toward each other is becoming stronger and stronger.

Something has taken root within us, something which I would simply call “love.” I feel it among all of you — you really do love each other. You may not know every face in the sanctuary on a given Sunday morning, but you do your best to welcome, support, encourage, and strengthen each other.

Another word for this is koinonia, the word we use in our weekly liturgy before our “Sharing of Shalom.” Koinonia refers to the kind of fellowship and community which is the consequence of the unity of the Holy Spirit. We are beginning to live koinonia out, and the result is going to be something very special.

Keep loving each other, and keep widening the circle. God is working amongst us!

 

Is Like...

by Rev. Kay Ash

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There are a number of instances in the Bible where Jesus begins a parable with “The Kingdom of God is like . . . (or in the Gospel of Matthew – “The Kingdom of Heaven is like...).  Jesus describes “the Kingdom” as a mustard seed, as leven, as a hidden treasure or as a merchant seeking pearls. The Kingdom of God seems to be “like” a lot of different things.  If I could, I would add to the list: “The Kingdom of God is like . . . Vacation Bible School at Kessler Park United Methodist Church!”

            We had a wonderful week together: 44 kids were loved and guided by almost as many adults and youth. There were fits of laughter and songs, stories and communion, science experiments and missional gifts prepared. All of us were focused - we spent the entire week loving God and loving each other. Simple, focused, pure – the Kingdom of God is like Vacation Bible School at Kessler Park UMC.

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There is plenty of evidence to support our addition to the “Kingdom of God” list. Firstly, there were all the activities we did together. For example, our KPUMC campus was so full this summer (what a blessing!), it required us to hold portions of VBS in Robert’s Forest. We were initially concerned about the heat, but our time in the woods turned out to be great – the trees provided enough shade and cool. Each morning we sang out loud and beat trash can drums for all of our Kessler Park neighbors to hear! And during our outside Recreation rotation, the kids ran and played, searched for hidden clues and ate bright colored popsicles in the glory of Robert’s Forest. One day, the kids even stacked stone Ebenezers so we could remember to say “Thank You God” for all of our blessings!

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If you need further evidence: our crazy and amazing Science rotation helped kids explore with photo sensitive paper and handmade boats that they sailed in a swimming pool.  They even experimented with laughter! Not to be outdone in the Missions rotation, kids prepared gifts of games to give to the Wesley Rankin Center, blankets to give to the Linus Project, bandanas to give to Dog and Kitty City, placemats to give to The Well and, lastly, they made prayer beads to help them pray with their families. Even in storytelling it was clear that the Kingdom of God was very near.  Each day a different adult shared a different Bible story and each day through careful attention, prayer, silence and ritual, the presence of God was unmistakable. Therefore, it seems very clear through our actions that the Kingdom of God is like Vacation Bible School at Kessler Park UMC.

That said, there is even more evidence to support this idea: smaller, quieter bits of evidence that popped up all through the week. Every day an adult would share a story about something wonderful the kids said or did. Every day.  It was like we were reminded once again of something we have always known: that kids are amazing and they bring us closer to God. And every day, through unbridled generosity, our Youth taught us that the Kingdom of God is filled with creative brilliance and laughter. And every day, the kids showed us what the Kingdom of God looks like through their questioning eyes, their warm hugs and their way of being. Every single day, the Kingdom of God was so very close.

I suppose we should not be surprised, really, that the Kingdom of God would be so evident when we spend a week simply loving God and loving each other. The Kingdom closely surrounds us each and every minute, waiting for us to participate in the goodness of God. I suppose after all these years, I should not be surprised when the run-away freight train of VBS takes off on a Monday morning and knocks me to my knees over and over again through precious moments of heavenly goodness. The Bible tells us that the Kingdom of God is near (Mark 1:15). However, I have to admit, sometimes those moments surprise me and take my breath. Sometimes, words are just not enough to describe the fullness of a moment. Sometimes, pictures have to help us see. The Kingdom of God is like . . . Vacation Bible School at Kessler Park United Methodist Church. Thanks be to God!

Making Our Ministry Safe

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There are a lot of things I like about having Rev. Kay Ash on staff. Since she started as our full-time Director of Christian Education, we have been blessed by so many of her gifts and graces for ministry.

One important gift that she brings is a wealth of experience related to child safety, particularly as it relates to our requirements and obligations as a United Methodist Church in the North Texas Conference.

I learned a lot about safety when she got here and started asking questions about whether or not the church is in conformity with conference standards. I assumed we were since we ask volunteers with children and youth to get a background check and undergo some online training.

Unfortunately, I discovered quickly that not all our volunteers have met those requirements. I assumed too much.

But I also discovered that this was not all that was needed by the conference. Kay informed me that being fully accredited by Ministry Safe requires a number of other documents and protocols, which I didn’t know.

Unbeknownst to me, under my pastoral leadership, KPUMC has not met the standards that are required by the North Texas Conference. I apologize for my part in not knowing the appropriate actions that needed to be taken, and I have authorized Kay to lead the process whereby we enter into full compliance.

It’s not just a background check and online video anymore; other things that need to be completed for ALL volunteers with children and youth include a Safety Application form, an interview, and a reference check. Compliance renewal must be completed via online training every two years, and background checks must be renewed every two to three years.

All of this is important because the conference looks at our compliance statistics and uses the information when evaluating our ministries. And if, God forbid, there were to be an incident of abuse here on our campus, the conference and our insurers would want to know what we had done to prevent it.

In the end, this isn’t about insurance rates or money. This is about the safety of the children and youth on our campus.

According to Ministry Safe, 1 of 3 girls and 1 of 6 boys will be sexually molested before reaching age 18. Additionally, 90% of sexual abuse victims are abused by someone they know and trust.

This means that a church campus is a particularly vulnerable location for sexual predators. If we are serious about making sure that this kind of abuse does not occur on our church grounds, then we must do everything we can to prevent it. That includes following the direction of Ministry Safe, which can help us provide a comprehensive program to ensure all children and youth have a safe haven, and that all of our churches are a place of sacred trust and security..

Kay and I are in the process of moving our church into compliance. If you are asked to fill out new paperwork or undergo training, please understand that this is not because we are suspicious about your behavior or have done anything wrong! The things we may ask from you have nothing to do with you personally. This is about doing the right thing for our church and our children.

Thank you for your cooperation and understanding. As always, the goal is that KPUMC remain a safe, warm, loving and caring place for all people. Especially kids.