The Call Project

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In Sunday’s sermon, I announced what I’m calling “The Call Project,” in which I’m asking each of you to write down and submit a brief version of your “call story.”

What’s a call story?

I explained in my sermon that a call story is a personal story about when and how God called you to fulfill your own particular shape of ministry, whatever that might be. (This is different from what people used to call their “conversion story,” which narrates how and when someone became a Christian in the first place.)

I believe that every Christian has received a unique and personal directive, or “call,” from God which should determine and shape one’s life choices. For a few of us, God’s call is to full-time, specialized ministry within the church, which we call ordination. But for most of us, the call is to embody the love of Christ in our vocations, whatever they might be, and to embrace our spiritual gifts. 

While I believe that every person has been called to some kind of ministry by God, I also believe that not every Christian has actually responded to the call. That means not everyone has a call story … at least not yet.

That’s partly the role of a pastor — to help lead people into hearing and accepting the call of God on their lives. I know I’m doing my job well only when I see you responding to God’s call to mission, service, or compassion. 

That’s why “The Call Project” is important to me, especially at this moment in time. Before I leave, I would like to know from each of you how you are responding to God. I would love to celebrate your call story with you, as well as to pass the story on to the next pastor, Eric Folkerth. 

In my sermon, I argued that every call story has the same basic three-part structure. That story usually goes like this: first, you are making your way through normal, everyday life when, second, a crisis occurs. This disruption or interruption leads to a sudden recognition of your call from God. If you accept the call, then the third stage takes place, in which you begin to live into a new reality, open to God’s guidance.

When you are ready to write your story, try using the following sentence prompts: “I was ____________ (part one: status quo) when ________________ (part two: crisis/disruption), and I realized that God was calling me to ___________________ (your call), and I responded by ________________ (part three: new reality).”

Using that structure, here is how my story of how I was called into the ministry: “I was studying filmmaking in college when, one night as I was praying before bed, I clearly heard God call me to be a preacher, and after I had graduated with my film degree, I responded by enrolling in Perkins School of Theology and beginning the path toward ordination in the United Methodist Church.”

Using the same structure for Saul in the New Testament, here is his story: “I was going to Damascus to arrest Christians when I was blinded by a bright light on the road and heard a voice from heaven which told me that I was to be an ambassador for Christ, and after being healed of my blindness by the kindness of Ananias, I responded by becoming an apostle to the Gentiles.”

See? Your story doesn’t have to be long and complicated, but short and to the point. You’re welcome to use the prompts I’ve given above, or to write something free style.

Please take a few minutes to write out your call story and send to me at wes@kpumc.org. It will bring joy to my heart, and I’ll make sure Eric sees it. Even more important, you’ll see it written down for yourself, a reminder of the divine purpose for your own life.

Oh, one more thing — if you haven’t yet, please take the time to upload a picture of yourself to the church directory on Breeze. If you don’t think you can manage it yourself, we’ll have volunteers take pictures of you after worship over the coming weeks and help you do it! This will also be extremely useful for Eric to get to know all of you.

Out of Control

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by Kurt Maerschel

For the last two weeks I have faced a situation in my life that seems completely out of my control. The worst thing is that I can’t seem to stop worrying about it. I know it doesn’t make logical sense, but we humans love to be in control.

The more I thought about this, the more I realized how little control we have. Take this weekend for example. I am planning a BBQ, and the weather predicted is thunderstorms. Yesterday I wanted to get a quick taco at the drive through, and all I found was a super long line – so anything but a “quick” taco. Take for example airplane delays - whether it is technical or weather related, we simply can’t control it. And then there are robo-calls - super annoying - yet I can’t seem to stop them with the many apps and filters I try to load onto my phone.

These examples are rather benign and funny, but life shows us much more difficult situations we are unable to control. Take for example cancer. Who gets it? When do they get it? Why do they get it? Many of these factors are out of our control. How about the death of a loved one? It does not matter whether it was an accident, or after a long known illness – it’s simply out of our control. Why is this?

I feel lost in a world that largely seems outside of my control. In fact everything around me suggests that I should be in control. The favorite Texan mantra of “picking oneself up by his/her own bootstraps” is just something we have learned growing up here. Popular culture suggests in many ways that all of us should be in constant control of everything. People show off their successful home projects on Facebook. TV Shows like “Tidying Up With Marie Kondo,” “Fixer Upper,” or “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy,” are all reminders for us on how to get our lives under control. Advertisements suggest that if we just had the right investment broker our retirement worries would be under control. We celebrate people who seem to be in perfect control of something in their lives, such as musicians or gymnasts.

As a theologian I ask myself, “What does God teach us about this?” At first glance it seemed “not a lot.” To the contrary, the books of Leviticus and Deuteronomy are full of rules which are enacted so we get our lives under control. But reading a little further, I realize that the Israelites wandering aimlessly in the desert and being dependent on everything to come from God is an incredible example of how people walk with God while being completely out of control. Jonah wants to stay in control by running away from God; then he is swallowed by a “big fish,” and he realizes that he is not in control. The book of Job is probably the prime example in the Hebrew Bible of how humans are not in control of their lives. And finally, it is Jesus who incarnates – meaning becoming fully human and fully God- from a position of absolute power to utter “control-lessness.” I think it shows that God wants to point us to the fact that we are not in control. This is just the way things are.

Is it good or bad? In my experience it can be both. In the beginning I felt distant from God; I had no time for God while trying to regain control over a situation I possibly could not. However, when I realized that God uses these moments so we can be drawn closer, I was able to embrace it. If you feel out of control, I would like to encourage you to follow the examples of the Hebrews and of Jesus Christ and accept the reality as it is. Embrace Jesus Christ as your companion and friend who will lead you through uncontrollable reality.

If you have questions about this article, please feel free to talk to me in person, by email (kurt@kpumc.org), or by phone (972-835-1909).

Signs of God's Love

by Ken Kelley

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I’m guessing that many of you were awakened by thunder early this morning. It’s certainly rattling our house as I write this. I’m more convinced than ever that Colleen can sleep through anything (or that she’s even more exhausted than the rest of us).

“I’m exhausted” – a phrase that describes my own state of being and something that I’ve heard repeatedly this week from many of you. Maybe it’s just my corner of the world, but most of the people I’ve talked to recently have been some combination of overworked, sick, stressed out, or just plain worn out.

To put us (at least temporarily) in a better place, we’ll all probably benefit from the light-hearted philosophy of a few church signs. Here’s my favorite 10 from a list of 101 that I found on the internet:

  1. Is prayer your steering wheel or your spare tire?

  2. Prayer. The original wireless connection.

  3. Wrinkled with problems? Come to the Lord's House for a faith lift.

  4. What is missing from ch__ch? U R!

  5. Looking for the perfect gift? Find Him here.

  6. Does your spiritual house need spring cleaning?

  7. God wants full custody, not just weekend visits.

  8. If God is your copilot, switch seats.

  9. Jesus is God's selfie.

  10. Tweet others as you would like to be tweeted.

“This is the day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.”
Psalm 118:24

"A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones."
Proverbs 17:22

To those of you who have more of a crushed spirit than a joyful heart right now, I pray that you’ll find peace, and I offer you these words from John Birch, a Methodist lay minister from England:

“True healing is more than restoration of flesh and blood or knitting of bone to bone. True healing is
wholeness, where body, soul and spirit unite. True healing is peace, the knowledge of God’s presence,
a hope that knows no end. True healing cries ‘Father, not my will but yours.’ True healing knows love
perfectly, a love that casts out fear. True healing overcomes, endures, for eternity.”