Just Stand There

Rev. Eric Fokerth

It would be very easy to begin this year freaked out by the news of the world.

Whether it’s the brinksmanship of the conflict between Iran and our country, the fires in Australia, or the news of a potential UMC split, there are an awful lot of screaming headlines out there for just the first few days of the year. It would be very easy to start this year with our “hair on fire,” in full-scale freakout mode.

However, one of the things my Father taught me a long time ago is that when we are in freakout mode, we often can’t think clear, and therefore we don’t act wisely.

Dad wasn’t a Buddhist, nor am I, but I admire their old expression that is meant to calm us in the midst of crisis. In the midst of crisis, Buddhists tell us to:

“Don’t just do something, stand there!”

At heart, this is called being a “non-anxious presence.” And, IMHO, it’s one of the things that anyone called to leadership should learn.

Being non-anxious doesn’t mean we don’t understand the serious threats before us. We do.

We get that climate change is bad.
We get that, two days ago, we perhaps stood at the brink of war.
We get that the UMC splitting will be a loss for all of us.

But we also understand that when our hearts our pounding, our adrenaline rushing, our blood-flow constricting…we tend to make poor decisions.

I’ve been reminded of this via one of my few favorite podcasts, called “Cautionary Tales.” Created by Tim Harford of the Financial Times, the podcast unpacks terrible tales of “human error, tragic catastrophes…and hilarious fiascos.”

And what does he learn from re-examining the terrible mistakes of history?

That time and time again, if only those involve could have stepped back, taken a breath, paused to reflect, tragedies might have been avoided.

In our Christian tradition, we hear the message to “Be still and know that I am God.”

That does not mean, “All is always well.”
That does not mean “Everything always works out perfectly.”
That does not mean that there are not politicians, pundits, preachers, and prognosticators who are TRYING to make us afraid.

All does mean that behind it all, those of us called to faith are also called to a trust in God. Work hard. Very hard. Push back against the challenging forces of the world. But trust that God is still God…and don’t freak out.

Sunday, we will “renew our baptisms” in worship. And we will remind ourselves of these two primary messages that are inside of our baptismal vow:

We are God’s good children, and God loves us and wants good for us. God loves us, and cares for us. And God loves the world too.

There is “evil, injustice and oppression” in the world, and our baptismal vows call us to “resist it” in “whatever forms they present themselves.”

Taken together, that is a tall order of course.

So, here’s my commitment to you in 2020…

I promise to acknowledge the fear, injustice, and change that we will feel both outside and inside our church walls. But I also promise to lead without anxiety. And I invite you all to year where you live much the same way.

Join us Sunday as we renew our baptisms and commit to the year that is to come.

Grace and Peace,

Eric

Giving Thanks

Rev. Eric Folkerth

“For all that has been — Thanks.
For all that shall be — Yes.”

This is a quote from Dag Hammarskjöld. For years, he was Secretary General of the United Nations. After his death, his family published his journals as a book called “Markings.”

This is a quote that he used to start off many new journal books on the first day of a New Year…

“For all that has been — Thanks.
For all that shall be — Yes.”

I shamelessly stole his idea, and for many years this was also the first new journal entry for me every year. (I must admit, I’ve fallen off in the practice a bit in recent years…)

But I love the sentiment.

At the start of a New Year, there is really no better prayer of thanks that we can offer to God.

Maybe terrible and tragic things happened to you this past year. Maybe there are challenges that you’ve been facing for *many* years now. The reality is, however, that you would not be who you are today without the bad and the good. Every single moment thus far in life has led you to *this* moment, and this coming year.

And so, even for the difficult parts of life, let us give thanks for what we can learn and grow and incorporate into a new and hopeful year in 2020.

I tend to think it will be a good one for our Church, and I’m looking forward to it.

On Sunday, we’ll celebrate “The Epiphany,” the Coming of the Wise Men. And we’ll also participate in prayer John Wesley’s classic Covenant Prayer. It’s way that Methodists have started off the new year for more than 200 years. And, actually, it’s very much the same sentiment as the quote from Dag Hammarskjöld.

I’ll end with Wesley’s Prayer, and hope to see you all on Sunday:

“I am no longer my own, but thine.
Put me to what thou wilt, rank me with whom thou wilt.
Put me to doing, put me to suffering.
Let me be employed by thee or laid aside for thee,
Exalted for thee or brought low for thee.
Let me be full, let me be empty.
Let me have all things, let me have nothing.
I freely and heartily yield all things to thy pleasure and disposal.
And now, O Glorious and blessed God,Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,Thou art mine, and I am thine.
So be it
And the covenant which I have made on earth,
Let it be ratified in heaven.
Amen.”

Christmas Eve at KPUMC

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Christmas Eve worship services are perhaps my favorite worship of the entire year. That may sound a little strange, since most observers consider Easter to be the highest and most important date in the Christian calendar.

But, as you’ve heard me say in sermons and writings this Advent season, I am a “Christmas Christian.”

It was through the powerful story of God’s incarnation that Jesus’ story first made sense to me. The idea that God comes to earth as an ordinary human being. The idea that, in some sense, God is reminding us that this happens all the time, all around us.

The Christmas story reminds us that there is no person, no place, no time…beyond God’s hope, peace, joy and love.

God is present in the lives of those who live in Kessler Park’s most expensive homes.
God is present in the lives of those who live under the I-30 bridge.
God is present in people of all races, genders, cultures, and sexual orientations.
God is present in those with all social views and political opinions.

Christmas reminds us that God has not abandoned this world. God was saving the world through Jesus from the very moment of his coming. And not even his death at the hands of the Powers That Be could stop it.

So, I hope you will be with us, not only on the 4th Sunday of Advent, but also for our Christmas Eve services. Very soon, we will be sending out an invitation video, via social media, so that you might invite friends and loved ones to join us Christmas Eve.

Each of our services (5:30, 7, and 11 pm) are distinct and powerful in their own right. And the *best* way for folks to hear about what’s happening at Kessler Park on Christmas Eve is for you to tell them.

So, invite a friend. Bring your family.

Join us for these truly holy and sacred times of worship this coming week.

May God grant you all HOPE, PEACE, JOY AND LOVE this Christmas.

Eric